Fans might not believe it, but according to Heather Dubrow, she's a "changed person." The Real Housewives of Orange County star insists that she's learned from her mistakes from past seasons and that she would rather go with the flow than engage in on-screen arguments with her co-stars.

Reality Tea reports on Friday that Dubrow doesn't want to be involved in the drama anymore and that she's learned to become a little more relaxed with her surroundings.

She explained, "I've learned to let go. I'm definitely a control freak, but this year I've gotten much better with not needing to be in control of every situation. I got to a place where I realized, you can't do everything perfectly - you have to let go a little bit. I'm much more 'me' on the show this year because I feel much more relaxed."

Dubrow adds that because of last year's dramatic season, it's forced her to realize what's important in life - and what's not.

The brunette beauty added, "Last year I felt like I was vilified. It was just a hard year, not hard like bad, but just hard: we had moved into this rental - we had moved twice - I was working, Terry was gone for like 6/7 months, and obviously I have my priority - my four kids and building this house."

She further explained, "I was tired, I was angry, I didn't see the ladies very much so I always felt like I was playing catch-up, and then anything I said was just used and twisted; it was just awful! I hated it - and I didn't like who I became because of those feelings. I'm not blaming anyone else but the way it manifested in me wasn't good."

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