The Real Housewives of New Jersey star Teressa and Louie, who she began dating in 2020 tied the knot last week in New Jersey.

Following the wedding of Joe's sister the people questioned why he didn't attend the wedding when it's so special for his sister.

Finally the couples break their silence and address the issues in relation to the wedding saying that they have "laundry list" of reasons.

On a "Display" podcast, Melissa shared that they did not attend the wedding because "Obviously there was something that went down at the finale of filming the Real Housewives of New Jersey."

Noting that she cannot detail what happened in the film but says nobody knows the full story behind the group's most recent fallout.

The actress also said that it would have been weird for her and Joe to be physically present at the wedding after what happened. If they went to the wedding it would have been stranged for them to congratulate the couples and wish them well on their wedding.

We know for sure that it's been hard for the business man to not attend the wedding of his only sibling. "We lost our parents and, to me, it was devastating. It really was. It was one of the hardest days of my life," the business man said.

Perhaps what happened in their reunion also marked the relationship of two siblings which is hard to fix because according to the business man, he was "shocked at the way I'm treated by my own family, my blood...that's what kills me. Every day, you have to live a life like that."

Working to keep their family intact has been a tough duty for Joe since for the past more than a decade he's been trying but later on he admitted that he gets tired of pushing himself to always fix what's broken.

He added that he wants to be depress-free as he now chooses his life, to go with someone's home or to go in the same room and feel loved and wanted.

As to deciding if he will attend the wedding, he said that there are a lot of questions going on in his mind at the time like if her sister really wants him to be present and all so he thought he needed to make a decision.

He emphasized what's really important to him: his family and children. That is why he decided to put his family in a much healthier environment. Adding that he decided to let go because her sister forced all that's happening to them.