Jennifer Lopez might have had a lot of men by her side in her life, but it doesn't look like she's met "the one" yet. The singer and actress opens up about her "ideal" partner and what she looks for in a man before she gets into a relationship.

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In a new interview with Extra TV on Thursday, Lopez reveals that her new book, True Love, is the most she's ever opened up about her personal life to her fans.

When asked if writing the book was a "scary experience," she replied with, "So scary... having just gone through the divorce before we went on tour. It was just this whole thing that was happening... it was a transformative, transitional time in my life where I discovered and faced myself... through my music."

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Lopez also admits that while she's experienced both love and loss, there was a certain element "missing" from her past relationships, which included her marriage to Marc Anthony and her highly-publicized engagement with Ben Affleck.

She admitted, "There was something in my relationships that wasn't lining up... the missing component was me loving myself and being able to take care of myself... they always say put on the oxygen mask first, right? But it's true... you have to love yourself."

What's more, Lopez says that she's still open to finding true love again, even though this time around she will definitely be more cautious.

As far as her perfect boyfriend, Lopez said that he should definitely be one of a kind. She said, "He behaves very good, he's super faithful, he's super sweet. He's funny... he doesn't have to be [famous] at all."

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