TV star Paul Wesley is bringing the heat in for his girlfriend- literally. TV star Paul Wesley is bringing the heat in for his girlfriend- literally. Did Paul Wesley & Phoebe Tonkin Take The Next Step In Their Relationship? On Saturday, the actor's girlfriend, Phoebe Tonkin- who's known for The CW series The Originals- posted a photo of Wesley on her Instagram page where he squats in front of a fireplace.