Bachelorette Finale: Why Should Emily Maynard Choose Jef?
"The Bachelorette" 2012 finale is hours away and the millions of viewers who have followed Emily Maynard in her journey to find a husband and a father for her daughter Ricki will find out her final pick tonight.
Emily will choose between Arie, a race car driver and Jef, an entrepreneur that is everywhere in the news after strong speculations that he will be who Emily ends with.
Emily has admitted that she had a "really slow start" with Jef but later in the show, when she and the guys traveled to Prague, she "fell hard" for him.
"It has taken a little bit longer for us to feel comfortable. And our date in London changed everything. Once we had our first kiss and our first date, it was on from there."
So the question many viewers may be asking is. Why would Emily chose Jef? Though Emily may be the only one who knows the perfect answer, here are some of the things that make him the perfect husband for Emily:
Jef wants to take care of Ricki and have more kids
Emily has always put her daughter Ricki first and she admitted early in the show that she wanted to have "a van" full of kids with her future husband. And Jef seems to be in the same page.
"The thought of Ricki being in my life and us having kids together like nothing makes me happier," he said on the show.
Jef makes Emily feel comfortable
While Emily has said that some of the guys like Ryan made her feel like she was being judged all the time, Jef makes her feel comfortable.
"I'm very comfortable to be with him" Emily said in a finale preview.
Jef is Very Romantic
"I just wanna hold her hand until I'm like 110. I feel that we have a love that makes this story look jealous," Jef said in a preview of Sunday's finale.
For further evidence, read the letter he wrote to Emily when he brought her to meet his family.
"You and I have one of those relationships that just comes easily. From the first time I met you, there was a unique connection that the only words I can use to describe it is 'meant to be.' As we've spent the last little while traveling all over the world together, I've gotten to know so much about you. I've realized I'm completely in love with everything about you. I love the way you smile. I love the way you grab my hand and hold it. I love how good of a person you are. I love how passionate you are about helping others. I love how good of a mom you are. I love that you want a cute little family, hopefully with me. I love how you chase your dreams and I love how you want to make the world a better place. I love how funny you are and how funny we are together. I love how you fit in my arms. I love the thought of going to sleep next to you and waking up to those big brown eyes every morning. I'm so excited to meet Ricki. I'll teach her how to play sports and I'll cheer her up when she's sad and laugh with her when she's funny. And I'll be there for her. I want to show her how to fall in love and have a love story that lasts forever, because I'll love you forever. Most of all I'm completely and hopelessly in love with you."
He is Cool
On Episode 1, Jef arrived on a skateboard wearing a suit and made a good first impression on her.
"My very first impression of Jef is that he was just too cool. LIke literally too cool for me," Emily said in the show.
Jef's hairstyle is also unique and there was also a unique way in which he handled the pace of their relationship admitting that he also wanted Emily to pursue him.
Jef is Funny
"He makes me laugh, he brings me out of my shell. I just like i'm very comfortable to be with him. He gets me in a way that nobody else does," Emily said on the show.
Emily and Jef have had one of the most authentic funny moments in the show. At least in two episodes, Emily seemed to have forgotten that the cameras were recording them and do silly things on screen like laughing out loud and do silly jumps.