However, things haven't all been easy for him and his new fiancee It's official, Bachelor star Ben Higgins is definitely engaged to either Lauren Bushnell or JoJo Fletcher! Caila Talks About Her 'Anger' Over Being Eliminated The reality star spoke to Us Weekly during the Women Tell All taping and admitted he is betrothed to one of the two women, but also shared that saying he loved both women during their overnight fantasy dates proves to cause a big problem in his new relationship off-camera, and that it did cause him and his fiancee to struggle a bit post-show.